a crush a day: one part humorous & two scoops opinionated

Humorous: Talking about FMILF (famous men I’d like to freak) while let my mind go wild (PG-13 most of the time).
Opinionated: Dispelling racially constructed and stereotypical ideas of the typical guys that an Ghanaian-Canadian (black woman/BW) is attracted to and/or attracts.
Policies: Real life crushes will only be discussed when they show teachable moments. Their identities will be hidden with a nickname. No one will be called out directly through their real name or anything of that nature.
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Friday, December 10, 2010

240. the veteran

I talked about the Emancipation of Asian Men and how they were declaring themselves in a past post. But I’ve been thinking for a long time…even if other men are just finding their voices to express how much they love black women…white men have been swirling for a long time.

They are the veterans of IR.

Thinking about this fact during the past days, I wondered why there is/was so much speculation about whether white men like black women or not. Yes, some don’t. But the ones who do are everywhere and have *always* been there declaring themselves.

One of the first (and few) male blogs I follow was about a White Guy from Sweden who loves black women… and yet, I fall into the same trap as well since I had been all scared by friends about racism in Europe even though we are all going to go and visit a friend in Sweden and I’ll be having a vacation to Germany.

Why is there so much speculation about whether or not white men like black when they are Vets? Yes, some white men don’t like black women. But we don’t see them. They might as well be gay for all we care because that is how we roll on ‘a crush a day.’

Stop asking. Seriously.

He in your face smiling *ALL THE TIME*? Asking you A-Z about your life? Asking you out on dates?

Dinner is not hanging out people.

If in 2010 we were suppose to be declaring ourselves I want that to stop when it comes to white men. They do. There is a tag on my blog for white men that I don’t have for any other men it says ‘white guy who do.’ I think I should change it to non-racist white guys just do! I am tempted but I need to stay a little politically correct somehow

Stop asking your veterans—they do!

And to the Vets, I salute you. Continue doing what you have been for the past (insert number) many years.



2 comments:

  1. Hey there, thanks for the S/O :-)
    And yes, trust me, there are tons of white guys who love black women! How could we not? The few that don't just haven't seen the light yet. :-) I know that their are many different definitions of beauty (and obviously white, asian and latin women can be very beautiful as well), but for some reason none of them make my blood boil like black women do. Whenever I walk down the streets and I'd see different beautiful women, my eyes will always end up looking at black women. For me there is almost something magical about them.

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  2. This is so true! White men are ALWAYS mixing! With every kind of woman! I honestly don't even see a white man and a nonwhite female as something of an issue these days. It's so common! Funny thing is; it's been common for a loooong time.

    I'm glad you've addressed that, babe. People seem to think seeing a white male with a black female is still a phenomenon but we all know that it's been happening for quite some time now.

    Asian men, now there's a different story entirely.

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