a crush a day: one part humorous & two scoops opinionated

Humorous: Talking about FMILF (famous men I’d like to freak) while let my mind go wild (PG-13 most of the time).
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Sunday, September 25, 2011

324. parker & elisa - act I




Where are my Brandy fans at? I had to make the screen caps by hand for the ending of the episode for her first appearance on Drop Dead Diva. I am going to talk about the whole episode so everyone who did not watch 3:11 Ah, Men of Drop Dead Diva please go watch the episode and then come back and join us.






***SPOILERS***
The way that black women are portrayed in entertainment (TV and movies) in interracial relationships is very interesting so I want to talk about the episode in detail of course but first I want to use Elisa (Brandy’s character) on the show and how she acts towards Parker as a framework of the post.

Brandy/Elisa is presented a woman who is very care taking of everyone around her since her father passed away and she became a nurse to help him but in retrospect her physical appearance isn’t one that is completely frumpy Mammy. Throughout the whole episode she looked very lady-like and put together. 

At first Parker is like: “she is my crazy ex-girlfriend from eight years ago” but I think through her actions and very demure way of acting makes him feel protective over her through the episode and then in the end when he offered her a job, I wasn’t surprised in the least. 

I think that I love this portrayal of Brandy because she wasn’t ever portrayed as an evil ex-girlfriend/secret baby mama (it just felt like a woman who had lost her parent who needed help). Plus, by the end of the episode I felt like Brandy/Elisa still loved Parker because she hugged him even though he offered a friendly handshake. I loved that vulnerable moment. 

I love this character because it makes it feel like black women are capable of the kind of longing that other women are even for bad men. I have longed for guys who aren’t good for me as well, I don’t just jump on that “F#$K! MEN!” bandwagon and I feel like media makes black women the poster women for that kind of response anyway and I’m not down with that.

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2 comments:

  1. Very good observation, the character was written that way, so perhaps someone understands how a women of colour needs to be portrayed. We are so rarely portrayed in a positive light, especially in a negative situation.

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  2. "We are so rarely portrayed in a positive light, especially in a negative situation."

    ^^That is what got me so much about Brandy's character on the show and what I wrote about in part 3: "Secret baby" versus "Baby Mama Drama."

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