a crush a day: one part humorous & two scoops opinionated

Humorous: Talking about FMILF (famous men I’d like to freak) while let my mind go wild (PG-13 most of the time).
Opinionated: Dispelling racially constructed and stereotypical ideas of the typical guys that an Ghanaian-Canadian (black woman/BW) is attracted to and/or attracts.
Policies: Real life crushes will only be discussed when they show teachable moments. Their identities will be hidden with a nickname. No one will be called out directly through their real name or anything of that nature.
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Saturday, February 4, 2012

338. me first



While everyone else is watching The Vow and movies like Red Tails (that have no black women in it whatsoever) on Valentine’s Day especially I will be watching Joyful Noise (again because why watch it just once?) I will be buying that movie on DVD as well. One of my favourite bloggers writes why to watch this movie here.

I think that there are always some issues that separate the blogging community who currently blog about similar aspects of black women’s issues but I always go through the same sort of decision making process when it comes to media. Before I invest time in a TV show I make sure of three things:

1. There are black women on the show.
2. Black women are put in a positive light on the TV show.
3. Check if there is potential for interracial couplings on the show.

Everyone else is on a “Me First” mentality for 2012 and I think that it is about time to do the same thing. I will be integrating this angle into the blog from now on. Our lives and love lives are the most important period. 

For me these are the most important posts: black women as the star and positive images.

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4 comments:

  1. Why thank you for linking to me and calling me one of your favorite bloggers! {{Hugs}}

    Like you I will buy the DVD for Joyful Noise. It's been a long time since I wanted to buy a film and the soundtrack.

    And great post for stating how we need to support ourselves so clearly and simply.

    Take care.

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  2. Bubbly Black GirlFebruary 6, 2012 7:57 AM

    I will try to catch this movie! Btw, what do you think of the Sam and Mercedes pairing in Glee? I am so glad that they gave Mercedes a love interest FINALLY and one of them happens to be a cute blonde white boy <3

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  3. I just found out about the pairing myself (thanks for the heads up) but I love the song that they sang together before kissing -- so cute! Plus, I made a post for it as well. I'm really excited about this because I was waiting for Mercedes to have a coupling but didn't see it before which is why I never invested time in Glee...until now of course.~~

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  4. @GoldenAh No problem!~~ Exactly, what I didn't understand why it was posed as such a hard question when it came to supporting movies like Red Tails. It is that simple: "Black women (and our interests) first!" Thanks for commenting. :D

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