a crush a day: one part humorous & two scoops opinionated

Humorous: Talking about FMILF (famous men I’d like to freak) while let my mind go wild (PG-13 most of the time).
Opinionated: Dispelling racially constructed and stereotypical ideas of the typical guys that an Ghanaian-Canadian (black woman/BW) is attracted to and/or attracts.
Policies: Real life crushes will only be discussed when they show teachable moments. Their identities will be hidden with a nickname. No one will be called out directly through their real name or anything of that nature.
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The IR Dater’s Secrets for Getting Him! is written by K.A. Robertson aka “crush’ed” who has written a raw advice book for women who have tried and tried again to date interracially with no luck. This isn’t your average advice book but instead filled with raw advice to make sure that you get him!

An “a crush a day” exclusive not to be found anywhere else! Coming soon! 







Declare Yourself: A Crush a Day’s Guide to Becoming an IR Believer is a guide book for declaring your preference for all of the readers of the “a crush a day” blog.

A blog exclusive not be found anywhere else. Coming soon! 













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Tammy and Eric go from strangers trying to avoid their pasts on their own to a husband and wife confronting their demons. Tammy was left by her college boyfriend because she was too “dark” to marry. Eric was left without a bride at the altar...three years in a row. But their choice to lean on each other instead of alone is manifested in a quickie wedding. With family problems, past relationships, and their own doubts clouding their future together, Tammy breaks down first. But Eric can’t hold onto the fragile relationship by himself. Will Tammy be able to fight for their growing love as well? 



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